Many parents divorce when their children are still young, and they may not have much experience with raising kids. Some of the lessons we learn as parents can be harsh, and others can be incredibly rewarding. Each parent approaches this undertaking with their own unique philosophy, and some may adopt stricter rules than others. But could you lose child custody in Georgia for being too strict (or not strict enough)?
Georgia Mother Arrested for Allowing 10-Year-Old to Walk Alone
In November of 2024, a Georgia mother made national headlines after she was arrested for reckless conduct. Her crime was leaving her 10-year-old son at home alone while she took her other child to the doctor. In her absence, this son then walked to the local dollar store – and he was noticed by a concerned resident who called the police. The authorities then located and apprehended the child before arresting the mother.
This incident sparked a widespread debate across the nation about so-called “free-range parenting.” The mother feels that she did nothing wrong, and she points out that she lives in a small town where people trust each other. Her supporters state that she did nothing illegal and that children benefit from a sense of independence at a young age.
Critics say that child safety is now more important than ever. One might argue that children face more danger in the modern era than ever before. Gone are the days when children can roam freely around the neighborhood, playing with friends and only returning home when it gets dark. Or so it would seem.
Excessive Strictness Could Also Cause Custody Concerns
On the other hand, a parent who is too strict could potentially face custody issues as well. The classic example is a parent who beats their child excessively. While corporal punishment is legal in Georgia, parents are not allowed to cause unreasonable levels of pain, mental anguish, or humiliation. This is in line with the Constitution’s prohibition against cruel and unusual punishment.
“Good Parenting” Is Highly Subjective
At the end of the day, “good parenting” is highly subjective. It is not the state’s role to judge your parenting abilities – and you should be able to raise your child in any way you see fit. Barring cruel punishments and total neglect, you shouldn’t have to worry about losing custody simply because you have a slightly different parenting style.
Can a Georgia Child Custody Lawyer Help Me Keep My Kids?
If you face the risk of losing your children due to allegations about your parenting style, a Georgia child custody lawyer may be able to help. Unfortunately, the courts may become involved if there is reason to believe you are not raising your children correctly. As a result, the court could award sole custody to the other parent. To discuss ways in which to avoid this outcome, contact Lankford & Moore Law today.